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Yesterday went alright. Brenden and I celebrated our 11 month anniversary with a movie date with my 5 year old cousin Mya and after we took her home we went to Red Robin where I enjoyed a burger subbed with a Boca patty and a whole wheat bun. I did come down with a pretty terrible headache though. We didn't work out. I talked to Brenden about it last night at dinner how it bugs me that we never go to the gym together. We spend all this money on a membership and we need to get healthy but he always has an excuse not to go. I tried to get him to go with me this morning, but he's too tired and needs to rest because he didn't sleep well last night. It's really starting to make me upset. He hasn't been with me in about a week. I really wish we could support each other. We both need to get in shape, and sometimes I feel like I slack on my goals because he does. Or he doesn't have goals. I really love Brenden with all my heart and it hurts me that he doesn't want to do this with me. I know it's silly to fight, but I want to fight for our health! One day I want to get married and start a family with him, but that's going to be hard if weight causes a disease or we're too weighed down to play with kids! I wish I had a way to encourage him to do this with me. I'm stuck. Does anyone have any advice?
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2025 kcal
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Gras: 88,57g | Prot: 68,78g | Glu: 239,72g.
Petit Déjeuner: honey, mixed berries frozen, Trader Joe's Greek Yogurt - Plain, all whites. Déjeuner: bisquick biscuts, honeyball turkey, macaroni salad, baked beans. Dîner: ken's honey mustard , romaine, pizza . plus...
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3558 kcal
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Exercice:
Shopping - 1 heure, Musculation (Modérée) - 40 minutes, Machine d'Exercice (Modérée) - 33 minutes, Conduire - 1 heure et 40 minutes, Repos - 12 heures et 7 minutes, Dormir - 8 heures. plus...
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You need to take care of you and the best advice I can give you is you cannot change him or try to talk him into doing what you want him to do or what you think is best for him. Don't use Brenden as an excuse for not working out or try to make him feel guilty about his not going. If I know nothing else about men, the one thing I know is you cannot make them do anything and if you try they just dig their heels in and get more stubborn. Just go, have fun, don't ask him to go and who knows, he may just on his own start going with you again. If not then you are taking care of YOU. Hon, the only person you have any control is YOU. ((hugs))
24 juin 09 par le membre: WECANDOTHIS
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Thanks, dear. I've just been really hung up on it lately. I know he will go eventually, but I'll stop being a pest about it. I'm going to the boot camp training tomorrow at your gym while he's at work. Maybe I can get out some of my pent up worrying out there! =]
24 juin 09 par le membre: kadinelouise
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