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this full moon has brought the werewolf outta my boys (9, and 3) theres nowhere to hide in this house. the overwhelm is real. they saw me crying while trying to make breakfast but they keep pushing me. whatever i do, its never good nor quick enough. help!
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Gras: 153,56g | Prot: 91,75g | Glu: 159,09g.
Petit Déjeuner: Jones All Natural Fully Cooked Sausage, Great Value Heavy Whipping Cream Ultra Pasteurized, Kirkland Signature Low Sodium Bacon, Coffee, Egg. Déjeuner: Perdue Panko Breaded Chicken Breast Nuggets, Farm Rich Mozzarella Sticks, Kirkland Signature Organic Yellow Sweet Corn, Nissin Top Ramen Chicken Flavor Oodles of Noodles Soup. Dîner: Tostitos Restaurant Style Salsa, Fritos Jalapeno Cheddar Cheese Dip, Hershey's Symphony Creamy Milk Chocolate, Doritos Nacho Cheese Tortilla Chips (28g), Kirkland Signature Ground Beef Patties. plus...
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Exercice:
Ménage - 30 minutes, Repos - 14 heures et 30 minutes, Dormir - 9 heures. plus...
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Take time out just to be with them and enjoy your time together. One day they'll be gone and you'll miss the chaos, I promise. 🌹
14 juil. 22 par le membre: shirfleur 1
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Oh gosh, that sounds horrible. You are being bullied. Yes, children will bully their parents if allowed. Everyone will be happier when you stand up to the boys. These tips from Psychology Today:
1. Be Confident. ;
2. Stay Connected. ;
3. Use Simple, Unemotional Language. ;
4. Set Limits. ;
5. Act quickly and consistently.
Check it out:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-couch/201702/6-smarter-ways-deal-bully
Study practice and rehearse, then act firmly and with confidence. You can change the dynamic. You are the adult! This is the most loving response. Cruelty is never okay.
15 juil. 22 par le membre: GlowingEmbers
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Consistency. The answer can be “because I’m the mom and I said so”. Find their trigger- take away what they covet the most- it differs from child to child. I had a teen it was her makeup. The other a stern look and the phrase I’m so disappointed. Good luck stay strong. Hug them after
15 juil. 22 par le membre: dosie1963
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IMHO Definitely try to stop the behavior. if there are sadly doing that with you, they are probably doing this with other people.
18 juil. 22 par le membre: beconsistent
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Oh my. I love what Dosie said: Stay strong. Hug them after.
18 juil. 22 par le membre: sugarplum_
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MrsOtt, what's happening in our lives affects our eating. What this site is about is support and encouragement. if a post doesn't interest you, by all means scroll past. Hope you're having a good day.
19 juil. 22 par le membre: shirfleur 1
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21 juil. 22 par le membre: kickthefat
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Are those eggs if sore they’re overcooked otherwise that’s a delicious breakfast
23 juil. 22 par le membre: Aka Momo
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momo, they were a lil... an addition to that rough morning. thankfully it hasn't been THAT rough since! :)
23 juil. 22 par le membre: DAZEY_iz_Well
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Don't let them get away with it. You are the adult and in charge, not the kids.
24 juil. 22 par le membre: eieio1234
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eieio1234
Thank you! Surprised this post is still alive! Im working on it, im a trauma survivor, 25 out of 29 years worth.... Boundaries were constantly overstepped, so i never really learned what that meant. With my therapist im working on improving assertiveness and boundaries, which is why its so overwhelming now! It just means im identifying more, though healing hasnt been an easy journey...
24 juil. 22 par le membre: DAZEY_iz_Well
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