This is the third time I've come to FatSecret. This time for the biggest motivator of all time - I'm engaged and getting married in July. Well, you know what happened. I'd lost weight and gained back 10 pounds during the dating process...now I'm on a hard stop deadline to take that off plus some more by the wedding. I'm grateful that my fiancé can look past the stretch marks and extra upholstering into the heart of me....I think growing up in the Philippines as opposed to the US may have something to do with it? Less judgemental culture? I think this acceptance actually makes me more motivated because now I really am doing this for me.