I am not the basic homemaker. I can't stand laundry and cooking and cleaning and my kids get on my nerves like crazy, but I can see how much better they are doing with their mom at home to care for them. I have a small furniture refinishing business, but mostly I enjoy reading moderately dirty romance novels. I suffer from a deep boredom from not interacting with people who can finish a complete sentence and not physically working at anything. I enjoy many small things in my life, but I abhore the neglect of being a wife and mom.