I am 43 years old, bio mom of 2, adopted mom of 1, and step mom to 1, tired of being fat, finding it hard to keep up with the 19 mo old we are currently adopting, I am a recovering alkie who turns to food, am looking for support, and folks who want to share support, cheering, and being a buddy, I want to lose weight and I cant do it by myself,,I am in a relationship goin on 4 years, and we both have grown in this relationship. I snore, I grunt, I dont want to get up off the couch, and I dont want to shop for clothes, I want to change course go a different direction in lots of ways, and this is a jumping off spot.