I am 29 years old and have a wonderful husband. He has two sons from a previous marriage (ages 11 and 7) that we have sole custody of. I have a daughter (age 8) from a previous marriage. We share a daughter (age 4). I homeschool them. I am wanting to get myself to love myself...does that make any sense? I want to feel pretty and feel like I don't have to hide behind huge sweats or jackets. I am ready to not be the "fat friend".