Journal de DAZEY_iz_Well, 02 sept. 23

Yesterday I did upper body weight lifting. Things are going better then I originally thought as far as this separation goes... however, I've asked him to stop touching me/kissing me/ check-in on me constantly... we are separated... yet he continues to do so. It's making me feel smothered. I asked why he continues to do this, his reply "i don't want to stop because I'm afraid of turning to the alternatives,"...I asked what he meant by that... "oh you know...I know what I'm capable of, but i dont want you to feel like you have to with me" aka if I don't fulfill his sexual needs someone else will. WE ARE SEPARATED FOR A FREAKING REASON. Do whatchu want...I no longer am responsible for this💅
84,9 kg Perdu jusqu'à présent: 13,5 kg.    Reste à parcourir: 0 kg.    Régime suivi: Raisonnablement Bien.

Voir Calendrier de Régime, 02 septembre 2023:
2 kcal Gras: 0,05g | Prot: 0,28g | Glu: 0,09g.   Petit Déjeuner: Coffee. plus...
Prenant 1,3 kg par Semaine


Commentaires 
Ugh. Boundaries, dude. 🤬 
02 sept. 23 par le membre: writingwyo
Maybe he thinks you will get back together again as you really are not separated by most standards. Why doesn't he move out? If the 2 of you are done then there is no longer any reason for him to be around at all to push himself on you in any way.  
02 sept. 23 par le membre: -MorticiaAddams
He can't leave, it's his house, I'm not on the mortgage. I'm a stay at home mom, so if he did left, I can't pay bills. I can't leave right away, I have no car as we have only one, plus I'd need help moving out since I'd be taking both kids and need help with some furniture. I've made it clear that i need space, that we are split up. I'm just trapped until I figure something out.  
02 sept. 23 par le membre: DAZEY_iz_Well
Whoa, that's a difficult situation. I'm sorry to hear this.  
02 sept. 23 par le membre: erikahollister
Thanks, I'll get thru it, one step at a time.  
02 sept. 23 par le membre: DAZEY_iz_Well
Yes writingwyo, in the past I didn't have the ability to express boundaries so I've made great progress with maintaining them this time. We split up once before for 27hrs...o.o 
02 sept. 23 par le membre: DAZEY_iz_Well

     
 

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