Oh DP I am so sorry, what a horrible loss. I can’t imagine the pain and heartbreak you are going though. Prayers go out to you and your family!!💜
04 sept. 21 par le membre: PurpleAsh93
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Hugs. I lost my brother when he was 29. I know it's hard. Hang in there, girl!
04 sept. 21 par le membre: CrazyLupieLife
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04 sept. 21 par le membre: Mike531
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I'm so sorry...hugs and prayers.
04 sept. 21 par le membre: Suzy the Mimi
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My deepest condolences and sympathies. I’m so very sad for your loss.
04 sept. 21 par le membre: ian_sd
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Loss is the most painful thing to me. The absence of that energy that connected with yours. The shared experiences. Just a vacuum that saps us of our ability to move. I only started here more than a year after losing my mother less than six months after she was diagnosed with brain cancer. It took over a year for me to realize I'd become immobilized by my trauma. I'd gained more than 20 pounds. No one cared but me because I wanted to be around for me and those I love. Your brother sounds like he wanted the same, and I hope the comforts you. He died hopeful which is important. To live with hope in one's heart is good. To die hopeless is the worst. Addiction comes in so many forms, and people judge drug addiction so much more harshly (as they do overeating but in a totally more subversive way) than they do acceptable addictions like shopping or overworking or gaming or over exercising. Compassion for anyone in pain should replace that judgement including for oneself in the midst of a loss like yours. Hold on to the good moments, what he would want for you, your sixteen year old (I have one too). Feel those good things. They will slowly draw you back into the light. Forgive yourself for surviving and coping. My heart is with you.
04 sept. 21 par le membre: jenniferdonahue
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You are right...time does not heal but it does help lessen the acute heartache. I learned to walk with the pain...it has been 4 years since I buried both my daughters at the same time from cancer and finally I can now drive to the market without crying. What pushed me on was focused living for my other children and my husband....Sending you strength and peace.
04 sept. 21 par le membre: Jessie Quinn
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Condolences to you and your family. What a tragedy..I don't do drugs but addiction definitely runs in my family so I can relate to the pain heartache it causes. In my family it's the males that struggle with it. I always found that interesting. I can relate to the depths of your sadness. I hope that you are able to get support from your family. Its such a blessing to have a supportive spouse and I'm sure David is helping you cope.
As I read the comments here on FS, it's so apparent the out pouring love and compassion we all feel for you. Take comfort in that and I'll be praying for you and your family. 💜🙏💜🙏
04 sept. 21 par le membre: Diana 1234
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so sorry for your loss, DP. There are no words that will comfort you, but know how many of us care and are praying for you, your mom and all of your family.
04 sept. 21 par le membre: Fritzy 22
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I can feel the pain in your words, I'm so sorry your family has to go through this and I'm sorry it's hurting you so deeply. He'd want you to live a good life. Much love to you.
04 sept. 21 par le membre: Katsolo
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why would Amazon and ebay allow selling drugs?
04 sept. 21 par le membre: hzhang19803
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I'm very sorry for your loss.
04 sept. 21 par le membre: buttercup30
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so very sorry for your loss my son being sick twice this yr has taken a toll on me just of the thought of loosing him I can't even imagen what you're going through right now 😓😓 please seek help in support this is very hardto go through alone I'm also here for you when you need it
04 sept. 21 par le membre: tr3vi28
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04 sept. 21 par le membre: cherylemtman
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I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. Hugs to you as you navigate the unthinkable.♥️
04 sept. 21 par le membre: Danana
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I'm sorry for your loss. Hugs.
04 sept. 21 par le membre: OldSandy Blonde
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Sending you a hug and much love. 🙏❤️
04 sept. 21 par le membre: Nikina70
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All I can say is thank you for heartfelt post DP.❤️
I love and care about you very much. 💕
We are addicted (food) too, everyone has a vise to fight! 😢
*Plus, remember this, although Diablo might see this, when you need to buy a birthday card and haven’t, you say what a wonderful, funny, great birthday card you bought, and can’t find where you put it anywhere!🙃 😆
❤️❤️❤️❤️
04 sept. 21 par le membre: Shrewdness
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04 sept. 21 par le membre: monika135
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Thanks for your love and support and thanks to those of you who have shared your experiences. I know we all have loss. Thank you for giving me an outlet here to just write. 💗
04 sept. 21 par le membre: davidsprincess
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