I am 25 years old, mother of 2, and very comfortably married. My husband loves to eat GOOD food, you know the real fatty yummy stuff, and I eat right along with him! I love food, and who doesn't right?? I want to lose this weight for my self esteem and so I can wear the clothes I like instead of clothes to cover up my fat. I gained 65 lbs with my last pregnacy and even though I gained 90 (i know its sick!) with the first, this time its harder to take off. When I lost the baby weight with my first (yup 90 lbs) I did it the unhealthy way and took phenermine. I have to say it worked very well, but I felt really weird on it and after a while I couldnt stand the way It made me feel. I thought about using it again, but decided to make a healthy choice and use exercise and diet to lose this weight, yes it is a tougher battle, but worth it in the end!